Before you start reading this post, let me warn you that it will probably be boring to you and let's face it, you really don't care to know the
nitty-gritty on E learning to use the bathroom. So, my suggestion is to just stop now and come back sometime when there are new, cute pictures of the little munchkin. I'm just writing this to document where we are at the end of today so that we can look back and laugh someday. Enough said...you have been warned.
E has been fiddling around with using the bathroom since February. A few times she'd go several times a week or maybe just several times within the month. It varied on her interest level. I never pushed the experience. We let E try it when it suited her. Well, May was a very low interest month but according to several things that I had read she was
exhibiting numerous signs that she was ready. So, I checked a book out of the library
regarding the whole learning process, read it and decided that June was going to be our month to at least give it a real try.
Well, she had a successful experience Friday, Sunday and Monday...she'd never been so
consistent before. So on Tuesday, I decided that I was going to be
diligent about asking. On Tuesday, she had 3 successful experiences. It was very exciting for both of us. So, that brings us to today...
The good news is that she had 1 partial success and 2 complete successes. The bad news is that she didn't just release her bladder 3 times during the day. I should have known that we were in trouble when she pooped in her training pants 15 minutes after she put them on...but I am jumping ahead of myself.
To start the morning, I quickly got E out of her night-time diaper and sat her on the potty. Nothing happened of course because I was probably too late because she was awake for awhile before I got her out of the crib. No big deal. Well, little Miss Independent declared that she was not putting on a diaper. We strike a deal that she can wear her waterproof training pants. Fifteen minutes later I see 'the face' and I thought "No wait...she doesn't have
bms in the am!" But alas, today she did. So, I cleaned her all up and let her have some naked time instead. I kept a close watch on the clock because I figured she'd have to do a #1 about 45 minutes after breakfast. At about the 45 minute mark, I ask E, "Do you need to go potty?" She smiles says, "Yes" and proceeds to go all over the floor. I did get her to the potty quickly enough that she went some of it in the toilet, but again another mess.
She had a very small accident while I was in the shower, but had on the other pair of waterproof training pants. So there wasn't any mess...just undies to wash. I tried really hard to convince her that she needed a diaper on before she went outside, but she was
adamant that she was wearing 'undies' today. We took the potty outside with us and began playing. We walked the baby dolls over to the church parking lot (her new favorite past-time) and came back. I sat her on the potty because I just knew that it was getting time...but she declared 'no potty'. So, we walked back to the parking lot with the dolls and once we were as far away from our house as possible, she said "uh-oh!" and left a puddle on the pavement. Lovely. More laundry...even needed to wash the shoes.
Came home and had lunch. Had our first completely successful potty experience of the day! Luckily I managed to convince E that she had to have a diaper on for nap (however, she would have worn one regardless...I'm not that crazy!), and I put her down. She didn't actually nap but was
poopy when I got her up from her crib. So, that mess was at least in a diaper. Thank goodness.
Had another successful experience before dinner. She was playing (naked again) and all of a sudden ran over to the potty and sat down. So, she is getting the hang of what her body is telling her, I think. We ended the day with more laundry and 2 unsuccessful bouts as she was playing outside. I think the moral of the story is that E needs a diaper on outside!!! However, convincing her of that fact may not be so easy...beside I don't want to discourage her by using a diaper if at all possible. She's very excited about 'undies' right now.
So, we'll see what tomorrow brings.